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CattyN · 08-17-2006

I have to admit that I'm begining to get angry at the number of "regulars" here who "mod" the forum while lorkeep is away and how rude, sarcastic, and generally UN-HELPFULL they are. This was a complete waste of time and effort. A guy who's NEW to the whole place, doesn't know the site well enough yet, posts an innocent question and instead of getting a quick answer (which would've closed the post and left the place open for more important ones) instead gets harrassed, called names, and basically alienated in no less than 4 pages!!!

I mean c'mon people! Get a life and help out for crying out loud. YES i know his question was easily answered, and YES i know if he looked around he would've found it... but if someone here had just taken the SMALL time to answer it in the first response, there wouldn't be this debate going on right now!

Grow up people!

What's worse is that i'm noticing it be the same people in every thread too. Don't you people have something more important to do with your life than sit around here, answer every thread, and generally act like you own the place? You should be greatfull for ANY content that's uploaded good or bad, and you should treat your fellow members with RESPECT. Sarcasm and wise-ass remarks don't make you generally liked. I've had my bad shares I know, but I know when to respond properly. I get hundreds of e-mails a month asking the dumbest simplest questions, but I still go through and answer them one by one. If i were sarcastic to all of them, it would upset them, alienate them, and generally LOWER my popularity (which I might add is on the rocks anyway).

I'm just saying... give the guy a break. If anything I think he is owed an appology from the number of people who came here JUST to flame him. And I don't mean a simple appology in this THREAD: I mean actually PMing him with a REAL appology and trying to win him back to the group and encouraging him to be more productive.

Some of you don't seem to realize that "coming out" of the closet and ADMITTING to MANY PEOPLE that you like a FETISH is a VERY DIFFICULT CHOICE! It took me 8 years before I got up enough courage to post a picture! So cut the guy some SLACK! Geeze!

08-17-2006	#41
CattyN Frequent Poster Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 157	I have to admit that I'm begining to get angry at the number of "regulars" here who "mod" the forum while lorkeep is away and how rude, sarcastic, and generally UN-HELPFULL they are. This was a complete waste of time and effort. A guy who's NEW to the whole place, doesn't know the site well enough yet, posts an innocent question and instead of getting a quick answer (which would've closed the post and left the place open for more important ones) instead gets harrassed, called names, and basically alienated in no less than 4 pages!!! I mean c'mon people! Get a life and help out for crying out loud. YES i know his question was easily answered, and YES i know if he looked around he would've found it... but if someone here had just taken the SMALL time to answer it in the first response, there wouldn't be this debate going on right now! Grow up people! What's worse is that i'm noticing it be the same people in every thread too. Don't you people have something more important to do with your life than sit around here, answer every thread, and generally act like you own the place? You should be greatfull for ANY content that's uploaded good or bad, and you should treat your fellow members with RESPECT. Sarcasm and wise-ass remarks don't make you generally liked. I've had my bad shares I know, but I know when to respond properly. I get hundreds of e-mails a month asking the dumbest simplest questions, but I still go through and answer them one by one. If i were sarcastic to all of them, it would upset them, alienate them, and generally LOWER my popularity (which I might add is on the rocks anyway). I'm just saying... give the guy a break. If anything I think he is owed an appology from the number of people who came here JUST to flame him. And I don't mean a simple appology in this THREAD: I mean actually PMing him with a REAL appology and trying to win him back to the group and encouraging him to be more productive. Some of you don't seem to realize that "coming out" of the closet and ADMITTING to MANY PEOPLE that you like a FETISH is a VERY DIFFICULT CHOICE! It took me 8 years before I got up enough courage to post a picture! So cut the guy some SLACK! Geeze!