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mercury01 · 01-21-2010

I had a similar experience with my first (and thus far, longest-lasting) GF. She knew I had transgender urges, but she didn't like talking about it... In the beginning of the relationship, I think she thought it was cute, but when I told her I was serious, she cried.

She was quite homophobic, I think. On any of the occasions that we talked about my being TG, she would give me ultimatums and stuff; she wouldn't acknowledge us being together if I ever dressed up outside the house, any children that we may have in the future must never know, etc.

I know it's tough right now... It took me more than a year to get over our breakup. And that was after I'd seen her dating someone else.

If you ever need someone to talk to, HOB, just ask.

01-21-2010	#4
mercury01 No Man's Slave Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 981	Re: I feel guilty I had a similar experience with my first (and thus far, longest-lasting) GF. She knew I had transgender urges, but she didn't like talking about it... In the beginning of the relationship, I think she thought it was cute, but when I told her I was serious, she cried. She was quite homophobic, I think. On any of the occasions that we talked about my being TG, she would give me ultimatums and stuff; she wouldn't acknowledge us being together if I ever dressed up outside the house, any children that we may have in the future must never know, etc. I know it's tough right now... It took me more than a year to get over our breakup. And that was after I'd seen her dating someone else. If you ever need someone to talk to, HOB, just ask.