This is positively obscene.
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That said, deceit is deceit. You can argue semantics until you're blue in the face, but you're still committing a lie of omission if you're TG and don't make that perfectly clear when you're advertising yourself as an object of sexual desire to and <bells and sirens to denote importance> making money off of the dirty thoughts of heterosexual men.
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You?re not entitled to know a detail as personal as whether someone is transgendered. Not releasing such a fact isn?t a lie as IT?S NONE OF YOUR FUCKING BUSINESS. None of her work is transgendered-themed. It is an irrelevant fact. It does not matter if the people you make money off of are men who would be uncomfortable knowing you have a Y chromosome. By all accounts, this person is fulfilling the desire their heterosexual male customers seek.
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Just like it's not homosexual for a straight man to be attracted to a TG female, it is not always homophobia to not be attracted to a TG female. For many, it's a matter of personal preference. You need to be able to separate disinterest from disgust, fear and/or hatred.
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Homophobia doesn?t always manifest as ?disgust, fear and/or hatred.?
The bottom line is if you enjoy a jiggle video or porn thoroughly due to the chick in it who you find attractive by all accounts, those feelings are genuine. If finding out they have a Y chromosome overrides all those feelings, it?s not a matter of taste as that chromosome would in absolutely no way affect either person in the potential relationship. It?s a matter of discomfort brought on my latent homophobia. It does not change their appearance or personality. It?s completely irrelevant yet it?s being trotted out as an extremely important factor. That?s no different than me discriminating against brunettes who have a recessive red head gene. It does not affect their appearance nor does it affect who they are. But, ewww, they have an icky gene!
It?s only important that this person identify as a transgendered female because after wanking to her, some of the guys who find out she?d biologically male might feel icky due to latent homophobia. Tough shit. It is no one?s job to pander to anyone else?s homophobia. What?s being asked of this person is that she indulge the irrational biases of her customers. Bullshit. You?re not entitled to know personal details about this person. If you feel icky later, it?s entirely due to your homophobia and is your responsibility to get over.