[tjlemke]

Im homophobic to the point that I don't want to date somebody of the same sex. I have homosexual friends and I'm okay with them, just I guess im homophobic to the standpoint that being involved with any sexual desires or any idea beyond friendship (I say hi and they stay out of my pants or anything else thought sexual) with the same sex creeps me out. I am proud of who I am, and thusly and not shamed of my feelings. None of us should because we are entitled to them. That's my take.

EDIT: OK, I have made it through about half of this entire thread making it out with my eyes intact (barely). Honestly it shouldn't matter to either side what is or isn't to whoever else's opinion. I don't wanna have sex with men nor former men. Do I feel gay or violated afterward? Yes. Does it matter to you? No. If I have sex and they don't tell me they were or were not a man, it's a issue between me and her. Now would I prefer to have that info before having sex? Yes. Am I asking alot of questions to myself? Yes. Do I sound like Kate Gosselin during that interview? Unfortunately yes.

All we gotta figure out is to them their own. I am homophobic somewhat. I will not keep you, somebody homosexual or transgendered, from being my friend or let alone, breathing. I will not stop any other homosexual/TG person from accomplishing anything they want or can so long as it doesn't intrude on my rights to not having sex with them or other (can't think >.<). We just gotta live and let live. If I don't like your life choices, I shouldn't matter to you at all. So long as a non-homosexual person or a homophobe doesn't prevent a homosexual/TG person from there rights as a human being, then I see no harm on the matter. (This is saying that they are treating you with respect and am not harassing you for your life choices)