[edwardfandango]

No one, ever. I am still very young, but I have not told any of the women I've been with and do not plan to do so unless I absolutely have to (i.e. she finds out or it becomes an issue in our relationship). It hasn't been a problem so far, and I'm hoping it stays that way. Truth be told, I'd rather try to ignore this ugly secret (he says as he posts on a fetish message board) and hope that I can train myself to get more out of regular porn. I got myself back out of TG, at least.

Yeah, it's unreasonable to deny something as integral to your identity as your own sexuality, even with its kinks and flourishes. I mean, I'll probably always find chicks with body hair and tails hot, no matter how hard I try. But it's insane to embrace it, and resign yourself to the anxiety that comes with sexual abnormality.