[Anahki]

Well, I can see that many people here have different preferences, as it was expected. But there is one advice that will serve you well:
When you don't know what to do, or have to take a decision about a detail, scripting, effects or whatever, just have a look at the best TF ever, and put a woman in it. That simple. You will not fail whatsoever, and at least you will have the maximum people satisfied about the results.
And if that doesn't work, follow your instinct, as artists always do.