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Originally Posted by Journeymanic
I've always been the tiniest bit ashamed of my tf kink. Not due to content, but for how I participate. I never fantasize myself as the transformee nor as the transformer, but as the bystander who tells the victim it's okay. I suppose it's a type of Superman complex. I like the idea of being a transformed individual's life line, proof that the world isn't going to immediately shut them out.
But isn't this thought process a bit selfish? Should I get enjoyment from someone's misfortune? When I see a women on the street and think it'd be great if she started turning into a lioness girl or something is it any different than say an amputee fetishist wanting her to get hit by a car and comforting her. (Nothing against amputee fetishists just the best thing I can think of. Its not an accurate metaphor anyway as there are actual amputees no matter what you do.)
I hope I would help any person in need regardless of the situation, but should I be turned on by someone else's unasked for agony?
(This is what happens when you're psychology major who's been a bit too introspective.)
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When are your first memories of having this kink? I don't think what you like is wrong, but then again, I have sympathy for pedophiles (not child molesters, children can't consent) It seems like the root of this is different for everyone, though lately I think it has a lot to do with wanting to be somewhere else, something else. An escape. Do you feel like you can't help people when they're in trouble? Do you want a chance to prove yourself? Most people I meet want to be transformed. Occasionally, someone will want to do the transforming or be a switch hitter. (I'm a switch hitter) Bystanders are the minority (I think?) but they are out there. I know I probably wouldn't mind being in a group of people making asses of themselves.
Btw, your username is neat.