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Also... the fact is that often, embarrassment and humiliation aren't that far from sex. I mean, look at how much focus there is on cute blushing. Do you like seeing someone looking a bit awkward after a transformation, trying to cover themselves up while blushing? If so, that's embarrassment and humiliation you're admiring.
Not all humiliation has to be 'put in a collar and made to drink from a bowl like a dog' or whatever. There's a range to these things, and they appear in different forms. Some people might start by seeing more 'subtle' forms of embarrassment, say, and decide to look for more. Lots of people just recognize that they're interested in this sort of "mental interplay" between individuals, without necessarily liking the sorts of activities you'd normally associate from it. Not every BE fan likes pictures of the world being crushed by giant breasts; not every humiliation fan likes to see someone barking like a dog (or worse.) Sometimes subtle embarrassment can be more effective, and it's not hard to see how you could find that intriguing just by observing it normally.
Bondage works the same way. Playful wrestling and pinning is very, very common. Some people realize that they're getting excited by that specifically, and look for more. Some people don't.
And then there's what's probably the most common way of finding things: You happen to see something related to it, and you realize you like it. How did you find out you like TG, BE, shrinking or whatever? Most likely, you saw something that involved it and were intrigued.
(And sometimes you just know; you always found gender or size-differences or embarrassment and social influences to be interesting, you just only slowly come to recognize it as sexual.)
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