Well, in my case the thing is that I am not aroused by violence or similar, but I don't mind if it is used in a movie, a videogame, series or comic because it is
entertaining . I mean, I play the videogames with the gore/violence/blood modes on, as the 99.9% of you, as I suspect.
Said that, it is also true that I prefer the TFs when they are unwilling, painful and graphic, and by some means that could be understood as "violence"
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Also, as sodacat said, that stuff was part of our childhood, as has to be understood as it was conceived, entertainment and sometimes provocation too.