[Natsuki Matsuzawa(松沢夏樹)] Hana no Shinsengumi (華の神剣組) - Vol.03 [2002-05-27]
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It seems the girl can both control and make her hair grow, the guy is unable to scratch it even using a sword, her hair later grow breaking throught the floor.
There is a TF latter, sort of demon, succubus, or snow fairy. Anyways the series may feature other female TFs, as I don't have any other volume it'll post it here for now.