Thank you for all of the splendid replies!!! And to my Lurker#... it even came with this sweet certificate!!
Anyway... for that one comment about the male + female = dickgirl, thats sort of thing comes to mind, as long as that isnt really the sole purpose. I mean, either way is fine, but I prefer the type in which it is there, but it just isnt the main focus.
Thanks again for all of the help. Im off to dig in all of this info!!
EDIT: I'll try and add my own findings in time, but I have nothing as of now.
