Fetish

[jolem]

Since this is the same kind of subject, I'll ask my question here instead of making a new thread. When did you guys discover you have a fetish for transformations?
It's not the same thing as what got you into transformation but more on your realization that actually get off on this kind of stuff. I was more like a TF fetishist in denial as I considered myself as an TF enthusiast, but after so many wet dreams that and after a recent one (a couple of months ago) I realize that I actually have a fetish for Transformations.

My realization came from the fact that I thought wet dreams were about when I didn't use the bathroom enough so I ended up peeing myself awake much to my immediate discomfort. But when I had that recent one, my bladder was full but I was so tired that I couldn't make myself go use the bathroom because I was so tired that day. Then I went to sleep and eventually had another detailed dream about some girl transforming which ended in the middle of that because once again I awoke to find myself "peeing," so I got off the bed as soon as I could went to the bathroom. When I finished "peeing" I noticed that I still really need to go pee and that's when I realized that "strange liquid booger stuff" that I keep peeing out of was actually cum and cumming and peeing are two different things. It's strange to me that my cum kind of looks like liquid boogers as they even have a greenish tinge on them when a lot of it is in the same place. But anyway that's when I realized that I have a fetish for transformations. Again, I was pretty much in denial about that when I thought wet dreams were actually about peeing, when it could be a bit of both for peeing and cumming while dreaming, but depending on the situation.

Still though how did you guys realize that transformations are more a fetish instead of just special interest?

On a side note how exactly does TF Roleplay work guys who got lucky in having their girlfriends do that for them?

[KermitYoung]

My interest in tf does affect me on a daily basis, and it does affect my romantic life.
Though I've taken a little break from dating, whenever I eventually get into a new relationship I'm sure I'll mention my fetish to my new girl, when the time is right. I should mention that I've shared my fetish in the past with every woman I've dated; wonderfully, they were pretty accepting.

Also, here's a tip I've learned that I advise others take to heart:
when you share something that is deeply personal such as a fetish, don't explain it like you're ashamed of it, because people will react accordingly. If you tell your sweetheart your fetish with the attitude of "this fetish is the weirdest, most awful thing and I'm ashamed of it", then they will react the same way. If you instead show and explain your fetish in gentle, basic terms with a friendly, casual tone (as if it's no big deal, this is just what you like) then your lover will likely respond much kinder. Also, don't go straight for the hardcore when showing your girl/guy what your kink is. I'd recommend starting simple and gently working your way up.

For example, I personally have a thing for elaborate forced tf scenarios; there's one in particular I like that involves women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s being forced to turn into animal women via a government mandate. I totally recognize that that particular scenario is a little complicated and as such, I wouldn't open with that particular fantasy when explaining what kind of fantasies I like. Instead, I'd start small with something like, "you know honey, I think women transforming into cute animal girls is sexy", and then take it from there by showing her some tame images. After said girlfriend processed/reacted to my earlier statement and images, then I'd build my way up to explaining the more intricate ideas.

I know it seems like a no-brainer, but presentation is huge when it comes to stuff like this. Don't be ashamed, don't be overly eager, just be honest and put it out there in gentle terms and I think you'll be surprised.