Looking for girls who enjoy TF to chat with

[Miss Mako]

Pro-Tip For Women: You would be thankful if your BF or Husband would want to know what it's like to be a girl. And I'll explain why in ONE BIG WORD.

"UNDERSTANDING"


Most women I know love to rip on male stereo-types. I often roll my eyes and tell them "you wouldn't be saying that if you knew what it was like to be a man". Most men don't care what women think, and all they want to do is get in your pants. My close "male" friends ask me time and time again... "how come every relationship you've ever had with a girl (even my wife) lasts so long?" "Why do you both seem so happy all the time?"

I tell them... becuase I probably have a better understanding of my partners. I have a level of respect and admiration for women that most men don't care to want to know. In fact... I have a bigger appreciation for all people... whether of race, age, gender or even sexual preference. Eveyone is on equal ground in the way I look at things. And I attribute all of that to my "very minimal - gender dysphoria". I know I didn't get this empathetic understand by ways of my parents - as they are prejudice.

Plain and simple - Ignorance breeds hate and misunderstanding. Most people in this world (especially AMERICA - which I live in) want to stay ignorant.


- Mako -

[thejakeman]

Originally Posted by Mako

Pro-Tip For Women: You would be thankful if your BF or Husband would want to know what it's like to be a girl. And I'll explain why in ONE BIG WORD.

"UNDERSTANDING"


Most women I know love to rip on male stereo-types. I often roll my eyes and tell them "you wouldn't be saying that if you knew what it was like to be a man". Most men don't care what women think, and all they want to do is get in your pants. My close "male" friends ask me time and time again... "how come every relationship you've ever had with a girl (even my wife) lasts so long?" "Why do you both seem so happy all the time?"

I tell them... becuase I probably have a better understanding of my partners. I have a level of respect and admiration for women that most men don't care to want to know. In fact... I have a bigger appreciation for all people... whether of race, age, gender or even sexual preference. Eveyone is on equal ground in the way I look at things. And I attribute all of that to my "very minimal - gender dysphoria". I know I didn't get this empathetic understand by ways of my parents - as they are prejudice.

Plain and simple - Ignorance breeds hate and misunderstanding. Most people in this world (especially AMERICA - which I live in) want to stay ignorant.


- Mako -

tl;dr

I'm henpecked.

[PinkPikachu]

I think it is actually better that it is assumed the forum is homogeneous (Mostly), because then you can get to know someone based upon how they act to unknowns, not how they act when trying to seduce/abduct/flirt/look good/etc.

I agree though that people don't try enough to understand people. And even when they do, they often only look at one level. Someone might see a particular behaviorism, but not look into why that behaviorism exists (Including fetishes, but it can also be simple things such as word choice).

>.> My open-ness though often scares the people I like and want to know more about, away. Its 'bad' it seems in this society to be open. If you try to understand someone, they get all suspicious and think you are trying to manipulate them. =_= The real sad thing is that it is true that a lot of people do want to know such things just so they can manipulate others, but it hurts those of us who just want to know more about people so we can better express ourselves to one-another.

[Mr. Gun Happy]

But why do women feel it's necessary to hide their identities on this forum?

[Mirokufan]

Originally Posted by Mr. Gun Happy

But why do women feel it's necessary to hide their identities on this forum?

Intimidated by the massive amount of males here?

[PinkPikachu]

Originally Posted by Mirokufan

Intimidated by the massive amount of males here?

Yea, seriously. Just imagine it. If a girl wants to talk to someone who is into fetishes she is, she talks to them. But if that person knows she is a girl, his behaviorisms change. He might act differently based on that fact. Start treating her not as an equal but instead like an object.

By maintaining their false gender, it gives them a chance to socialize with people. Not socialize with men who will say yes to anything just for a chance to get into their pants.

And honestly, I don't mind. I mean, if said girl were to like someone and want to be romantic, then she could simply tell them her true identity. That in of itself seems a lot more romantic than a guy seeing a girl and saying 'lul sex nao'.

[Mr. Gun Happy]

Originally Posted by PinkPikachu

Yea, seriously. Just imagine it. If a girl wants to talk to someone who is into fetishes she is, she talks to them. But if that person knows she is a girl, his behaviorisms change. He might act differently based on that fact. Start treating her not as an equal but instead like an object.

By maintaining their false gender, it gives them a chance to socialize with people. Not socialize with men who will say yes to anything just for a chance to get into their pants.

And honestly, I don't mind. I mean, if said girl were to like someone and want to be romantic, then she could simply tell them her true identity. That in of itself seems a lot more romantic than a guy seeing a girl and saying 'lul sex nao'.

The wonders of the internet...

Oh, and you made spit up my drink with "lul sex nao". ^_^

[Prophet Tenebrae]

Originally Posted by Mirokufan

Intimidated by the massive amount of males here?

I think it's more a case of the massive number of horndogs that will hurl themselves at anything professing to be female and expect this unsolicited affection to be met with cheerful aplomb.

It doesn't surprise me in the least that some members choose to either not disclose that they're female and some decide to out and out lie about it... until we've euthanised the last horny girl molesting idiot in this forum, I don't expect that status quo to change.

[PinkPikachu]

Originally Posted by Mr. Gun Happy

The wonders of the internet...

Oh, and you made spit up my drink with "lul sex nao". ^_^

xD

Originally Posted by Prophet Tenebrae

I think it's more a case of the massive number of horndogs that will hurl themselves at anything professing to be female and expect this unsolicited affection to be met with cheerful aplomb.

It doesn't surprise me in the least that some members choose to either not disclose that they're female and some decide to out and out lie about it... until we've euthanised the last horny girl molesting idiot in this forum, I don't expect that status quo to change.

Hmm... If X is the inflow of 'horny girl molesting idiot', and y is the euthanasia of 'horny girl molesting idiots'...
Y=X
x^2-Y=X


.... Dx oh noes, they appear to defy the nature of the universe themselves. They just keep coming, more and more.

[Britty]

Originally Posted by Mr. Gun Happy

But why do women feel it's necessary to hide their identities on this forum?

Because we get hit on/commented/asked to do RP/e-stalked/harassed/ect?

Sometimes I regret coming forward with it. At least the whole "i'm ugly thing" kinda helps. But seriously...it's really creepy when you have men talk to you and you know they're just interested because you have boobs. I mean, can't we just be friend? )8

And yeah, I work at a rather large company...so I can't sneak on at work )8 *hugs Jake* They keep a log of what we go on >_> I most likely could get fired if they saw me on a fetish site.

[thejakeman]

Originally Posted by Britty

Because we get hit on/commented/asked to do RP/e-stalked/harassed/ect?

Sometimes I regret coming forward with it. At least the whole "i'm ugly thing" kinda helps. But seriously...it's really creepy when you have men talk to you and you know they're just interested because you have boobs. I mean, can't we just be friend? )8

And yeah, I work at a rather large company...so I can't sneak on at work )8 *hugs Jake* They keep a log of what we go on >_> I most likely could get fired if they saw me on a fetish site.

or worse, did you see what happened to melkorios?

yeah, it's probably good i don't use an actual full featured computer at work.

I would play solitaire the entire time i was there.

[gladewalker]

Heh...

"Full featured computer"....
Ok watched too much sci fi and anime lately probably to take that the wrong way...