Fetish - Page 2

alphaleo1977 · 10-24-2014

hello i been into werewolf transformation fetishes for a long time and i been trying to find a nice girl who shares the same interests as me and it is hard but im not going to change of who i am if they dont like what i like i guess it is tough luck for them but i would like to meet someone or chat with someone who like transformation fetishes

edwardfandango · 10-24-2014

No one, ever. I am still very young, but I have not told any of the women I've been with and do not plan to do so unless I absolutely have to (i.e. she finds out or it becomes an issue in our relationship). It hasn't been a problem so far, and I'm hoping it stays that way. Truth be told, I'd rather try to ignore this ugly secret (he says as he posts on a fetish message board) and hope that I can train myself to get more out of regular porn. I got myself back out of TG, at least.

Yeah, it's unreasonable to deny something as integral to your identity as your own sexuality, even with its kinks and flourishes. I mean, I'll probably always find chicks with body hair and tails hot, no matter how hard I try. But it's insane to embrace it, and resign yourself to the anxiety that comes with sexual abnormality.

kittycatmorph · 10-25-2014

I would say that it hasn't affected my somewhat "ordinary" lifestyle - no one knows about it at all, but what I fear the most is coming across someone I like and getting involved with them and then having to confront this issue of telling them what turns me on.

Reading on the earlier comments, I know some people are lucky enough to have partners that are willing to indulge one's fantasy but at the same time, it could all go horribly wrong.

Long story short, even if I do get involved with someone, I doubt that she'll ever know.

LeenaAngelWing · 10-25-2014

OH I have another piece of advice beside my "be yourself" advice earlier.

If you do share it with your significant other (which I recommend you do) I suggest that you show them examples. If they search alone, they can get to the pretty dark side of the TF fetishdome, stuff that gets violent and rapey and just... kinda shocking, way beyond sorta playful TF non-con. I mean, ask first. Be like "do you wanna see some of the art I look at?" But I think being introduced through you is better than them just going on their own.

That's the same piece of advice that bondage aficionados recommend to people who are "coming out." Holding hands through discovery is romantic, self discovery is shocking.

Dark Horseman · 10-25-2014

There's much weirder stuff out there. TF is tame compared to things like gore, child pornography, or fecal fetishes. When there's things like these and someone sees you getting off on a cartoon drawing, the worst they'd think of you is that you're hella silly instead of a pervert or just plain crazy. The South Park episode where everyone loses internet and can't fap to their random fetishes explains it best... Everybody is weird.

There's also the whole frequency thing. If you look at it a few times a week and just get off on it, I'm sure they wouldn't think anything of it except it's silly. If you're spending hours every single day, then yeah, they'll probably think you're crazy.

odysseusut · 10-25-2014

TF doesn't really affect my life. My friends and family know I'm into TF and they're fine with it. At first they thought was I was into furry stuff, but I told them that it wasn't really furry stuff I was into, but more the process.

My wife was the first person I told about 2 years after I met her. I was really apprehensive about showing her, and I stated off by showing her some photomanips that I had done a while back and she said, well that's not bad at all - but she promptly changed her mind when I said I had made them. She initially thought they were made by others and that I just looked at them. The fact I was making them made her really uncomfortable, especially the more revealing ones. She also didn't like the pig morphs I'd done.

We ended up making a compromise about the sorts of photomanips I made, and I continued making them. I was just making portraits at first, then expanding a bit, always trying to keep them 'classy' and 'artistic' rather than purely fetish material. I think my work has been better for it to be honest.

Occasionally she wonders what the models and subjects of my work, would think about my work. She's fully onboard with that aspect of seeing me find pictures of random women and turning them into cats, etc, as it's something she thinks I should be getting consent for. I do wonder those sorts of things myself as well, but when the photo is available for stock use in dA or has a creative commons license on 500px or flickr, then I guess it's generally fine for me to use them the way I do, otherwise they wouldn't be made available in the first place. Those models that do see my work, usually love the results and some have asked for more to be done of them.

It's been a few years now and I'm now married. My wife, upon reflection on everything, says that it only weirded her out at the beginning because I was making a big deal about it. If I hadn't been so awkward around the matter, she probably would have cared less for it too. She's not into the whole TF thing, and we haven't done any sort of roleplay, but she just lets me do what I do. I'm really happy with where she and I stand, and feel really lucky that she's cool with what I do.

slayer1 · 11-08-2014

it def affects my life, I'm too ashamed to admit it and sometimes during sex I'll fantasize. This halloween I tried to tell my current gf by hinting she should be a cat and by pointing out a chick in cat makeup that I thought looked sexy, I don' think she appreciated this and said no way haha.

I had an ex gf who was very open sexually and wanted to role-play with me, I told her cat-girl (a start though not TF but a start) and she was well up for it... I'm too shy and embarrassed to show any of the art I like or really explain it to anyone just yet.

Lucky for me I also have also have a foot fetish which I'm not ashamed to play on, girls usually find this more normal than TF i suppose. I'd love for my chick to wear fangs, eye contact, some makeup and tail along with the costume, but I haven't gotten there yet...

ohiotfguy · 11-10-2014

If I was any deeper in the closet I would come out in Narnia. I have been a lurker since about 97 and in all that time I have never told a single person. I even dated a girl who was openly a furry for over a year and never told her. To be honest I never plan on telling anyone, to me this is entirely private and I have no desire to act out on it in real life. Props to those of you who have, but I know I never will.

Ilovebe · 11-17-2014

My interest in TF and other process-related stuff is pretty much divorced from the people in my life. A lot of my interest in TF revolves around humiliation themes and such, and I don't have those types of feelings towards people I care about, including significant others. Actually, I generally don't have any TF-related ideas about real people at all. It's an aspect of my sexuality that's really just between me and the semi-anonymous people in the community, and I'm fine with that.

Xercon · 11-23-2014

I've only ever told two people, both of whom are ex-girlfriends. I've never felt it to be anyone's business but my own, although I have to be extra careful anyway due to the fact that I actually have political enemies (long story) who could potentially use it against me :/

My most recent ex just didn't get it, but to be fair she was one of those girls who was not particularly imaginative to begin with; I'm not 100% sure she got the concept of the world being round. That said it was very disappointing and led to a disappointing and unfulfilling sex life and ultimately I ended the relationship because I was so unfilfilled on so many levels.

The girl I was with before her, who I was with for three years and who I honestly thought I'd spend my whole life with, accepted it completely and despite not being into it herself was willing to go quite far to please me in that sense. I was amazed when she accepted it when I 'came out' to her about it and thought yes, she's the one. In the end we broke up after I found out about her cheating on me, but that's another story and to this day I remain haunted and heartbroken by this relationship ending.

Dr. Otto · 11-25-2014

As long as it doesn't negatively impact your relationships, whether they're personal or professional, it shouldn't make any difference. Just stay happy, stay healthy, and try to pursue other interests that won't strike people as being "weird."

(The only downside to having a TF hang-up is all the money I keep blowing on commissions...)

jolem · 02-01-2015

Since this is the same kind of subject, I'll ask my question here instead of making a new thread. When did you guys discover you have a fetish for transformations?
It's not the same thing as what got you into transformation but more on your realization that actually get off on this kind of stuff. I was more like a TF fetishist in denial as I considered myself as an TF enthusiast, but after so many wet dreams that and after a recent one (a couple of months ago) I realize that I actually have a fetish for Transformations.

My realization came from the fact that I thought wet dreams were about when I didn't use the bathroom enough so I ended up peeing myself awake much to my immediate discomfort. But when I had that recent one, my bladder was full but I was so tired that I couldn't make myself go use the bathroom because I was so tired that day. Then I went to sleep and eventually had another detailed dream about some girl transforming which ended in the middle of that because once again I awoke to find myself "peeing," so I got off the bed as soon as I could went to the bathroom. When I finished "peeing" I noticed that I still really need to go pee and that's when I realized that "strange liquid booger stuff" that I keep peeing out of was actually cum and cumming and peeing are two different things. It's strange to me that my cum kind of looks like liquid boogers as they even have a greenish tinge on them when a lot of it is in the same place. But anyway that's when I realized that I have a fetish for transformations. Again, I was pretty much in denial about that when I thought wet dreams were actually about peeing, when it could be a bit of both for peeing and cumming while dreaming, but depending on the situation.

Still though how did you guys realize that transformations are more a fetish instead of just special interest?

On a side note how exactly does TF Roleplay work guys who got lucky in having their girlfriends do that for them?

10-24-2014	#13
alphaleo1977 Lurker Join Date: Jul 2014 Posts: 26	Re: Fetish hello i been into werewolf transformation fetishes for a long time and i been trying to find a nice girl who shares the same interests as me and it is hard but im not going to change of who i am if they dont like what i like i guess it is tough luck for them but i would like to meet someone or chat with someone who like transformation fetishes

10-24-2014	#14
edwardfandango Process Fan Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 47	Re: Fetish No one, ever. I am still very young, but I have not told any of the women I've been with and do not plan to do so unless I absolutely have to (i.e. she finds out or it becomes an issue in our relationship). It hasn't been a problem so far, and I'm hoping it stays that way. Truth be told, I'd rather try to ignore this ugly secret (he says as he posts on a fetish message board) and hope that I can train myself to get more out of regular porn. I got myself back out of TG, at least. Yeah, it's unreasonable to deny something as integral to your identity as your own sexuality, even with its kinks and flourishes. I mean, I'll probably always find chicks with body hair and tails hot, no matter how hard I try. But it's insane to embrace it, and resign yourself to the anxiety that comes with sexual abnormality. Last edited by edwardfandango; 10-24-2014 at 09:22 PM.

10-25-2014	#15
kittycatmorph Process Fan Join Date: May 2013 Posts: 50	Re: Fetish I would say that it hasn't affected my somewhat "ordinary" lifestyle - no one knows about it at all, but what I fear the most is coming across someone I like and getting involved with them and then having to confront this issue of telling them what turns me on. Reading on the earlier comments, I know some people are lucky enough to have partners that are willing to indulge one's fantasy but at the same time, it could all go horribly wrong. Long story short, even if I do get involved with someone, I doubt that she'll ever know.

10-25-2014	#16
LeenaAngelWing Frequent Poster Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 174	Re: Fetish OH I have another piece of advice beside my "be yourself" advice earlier. If you do share it with your significant other (which I recommend you do) I suggest that you show them examples. If they search alone, they can get to the pretty dark side of the TF fetishdome, stuff that gets violent and rapey and just... kinda shocking, way beyond sorta playful TF non-con. I mean, ask first. Be like "do you wanna see some of the art I look at?" But I think being introduced through you is better than them just going on their own. That's the same piece of advice that bondage aficionados recommend to people who are "coming out." Holding hands through discovery is romantic, self discovery is shocking.

10-25-2014	#17
Dark Horseman Lazy Bum Join Date: Apr 2013 Posts: 86	Re: Fetish There's much weirder stuff out there. TF is tame compared to things like gore, child pornography, or fecal fetishes. When there's things like these and someone sees you getting off on a cartoon drawing, the worst they'd think of you is that you're hella silly instead of a pervert or just plain crazy. The South Park episode where everyone loses internet and can't fap to their random fetishes explains it best... Everybody is weird. There's also the whole frequency thing. If you look at it a few times a week and just get off on it, I'm sure they wouldn't think anything of it except it's silly. If you're spending hours every single day, then yeah, they'll probably think you're crazy.

10-25-2014	#18
odysseusut Frequent Poster Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 186	Re: Fetish TF doesn't really affect my life. My friends and family know I'm into TF and they're fine with it. At first they thought was I was into furry stuff, but I told them that it wasn't really furry stuff I was into, but more the process. My wife was the first person I told about 2 years after I met her. I was really apprehensive about showing her, and I stated off by showing her some photomanips that I had done a while back and she said, well that's not bad at all - but she promptly changed her mind when I said I had made them. She initially thought they were made by others and that I just looked at them. The fact I was making them made her really uncomfortable, especially the more revealing ones. She also didn't like the pig morphs I'd done. We ended up making a compromise about the sorts of photomanips I made, and I continued making them. I was just making portraits at first, then expanding a bit, always trying to keep them 'classy' and 'artistic' rather than purely fetish material. I think my work has been better for it to be honest. Occasionally she wonders what the models and subjects of my work, would think about my work. She's fully onboard with that aspect of seeing me find pictures of random women and turning them into cats, etc, as it's something she thinks I should be getting consent for. I do wonder those sorts of things myself as well, but when the photo is available for stock use in dA or has a creative commons license on 500px or flickr, then I guess it's generally fine for me to use them the way I do, otherwise they wouldn't be made available in the first place. Those models that do see my work, usually love the results and some have asked for more to be done of them. It's been a few years now and I'm now married. My wife, upon reflection on everything, says that it only weirded her out at the beginning because I was making a big deal about it. If I hadn't been so awkward around the matter, she probably would have cared less for it too. She's not into the whole TF thing, and we haven't done any sort of roleplay, but she just lets me do what I do. I'm really happy with where she and I stand, and feel really lucky that she's cool with what I do. __________________ My galleries:

11-08-2014	#19
slayer1 Process Master Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 588	Re: Fetish it def affects my life, I'm too ashamed to admit it and sometimes during sex I'll fantasize. This halloween I tried to tell my current gf by hinting she should be a cat and by pointing out a chick in cat makeup that I thought looked sexy, I don' think she appreciated this and said no way haha. I had an ex gf who was very open sexually and wanted to role-play with me, I told her cat-girl (a start though not TF but a start) and she was well up for it... I'm too shy and embarrassed to show any of the art I like or really explain it to anyone just yet. Lucky for me I also have also have a foot fetish which I'm not ashamed to play on, girls usually find this more normal than TF i suppose. I'd love for my chick to wear fangs, eye contact, some makeup and tail along with the costume, but I haven't gotten there yet... __________________

11-10-2014	#20
ohiotfguy Process Fan Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 59	Re: Fetish If I was any deeper in the closet I would come out in Narnia. I have been a lurker since about 97 and in all that time I have never told a single person. I even dated a girl who was openly a furry for over a year and never told her. To be honest I never plan on telling anyone, to me this is entirely private and I have no desire to act out on it in real life. Props to those of you who have, but I know I never will.

11-17-2014	#21
Ilovebe Frequent Poster Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 288	Re: Fetish My interest in TF and other process-related stuff is pretty much divorced from the people in my life. A lot of my interest in TF revolves around humiliation themes and such, and I don't have those types of feelings towards people I care about, including significant others. Actually, I generally don't have any TF-related ideas about real people at all. It's an aspect of my sexuality that's really just between me and the semi-anonymous people in the community, and I'm fine with that.

11-23-2014	#22
Xercon Leecher Join Date: Apr 2014 Posts: 2	Re: Fetish I've only ever told two people, both of whom are ex-girlfriends. I've never felt it to be anyone's business but my own, although I have to be extra careful anyway due to the fact that I actually have political enemies (long story) who could potentially use it against me :/ My most recent ex just didn't get it, but to be fair she was one of those girls who was not particularly imaginative to begin with; I'm not 100% sure she got the concept of the world being round. That said it was very disappointing and led to a disappointing and unfulfilling sex life and ultimately I ended the relationship because I was so unfilfilled on so many levels. The girl I was with before her, who I was with for three years and who I honestly thought I'd spend my whole life with, accepted it completely and despite not being into it herself was willing to go quite far to please me in that sense. I was amazed when she accepted it when I 'came out' to her about it and thought yes, she's the one. In the end we broke up after I found out about her cheating on me, but that's another story and to this day I remain haunted and heartbroken by this relationship ending.

11-25-2014	#23
Dr. Otto AKA Sister Hyde Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 855	Re: Fetish As long as it doesn't negatively impact your relationships, whether they're personal or professional, it shouldn't make any difference. Just stay happy, stay healthy, and try to pursue other interests that won't strike people as being "weird." (The only downside to having a TF hang-up is all the money I keep blowing on commissions...)

02-01-2015	#24
jolem Process Disciple Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,492	Re: Fetish Since this is the same kind of subject, I'll ask my question here instead of making a new thread. When did you guys discover you have a fetish for transformations? It's not the same thing as what got you into transformation but more on your realization that actually get off on this kind of stuff. I was more like a TF fetishist in denial as I considered myself as an TF enthusiast, but after so many wet dreams that and after a recent one (a couple of months ago) I realize that I actually have a fetish for Transformations. My realization came from the fact that I thought wet dreams were about when I didn't use the bathroom enough so I ended up peeing myself awake much to my immediate discomfort. But when I had that recent one, my bladder was full but I was so tired that I couldn't make myself go use the bathroom because I was so tired that day. Then I went to sleep and eventually had another detailed dream about some girl transforming which ended in the middle of that because once again I awoke to find myself "peeing," so I got off the bed as soon as I could went to the bathroom. When I finished "peeing" I noticed that I still really need to go pee and that's when I realized that "strange liquid booger stuff" that I keep peeing out of was actually cum and cumming and peeing are two different things. It's strange to me that my cum kind of looks like liquid boogers as they even have a greenish tinge on them when a lot of it is in the same place. But anyway that's when I realized that I have a fetish for transformations. Again, I was pretty much in denial about that when I thought wet dreams were actually about peeing, when it could be a bit of both for peeing and cumming while dreaming, but depending on the situation. Still though how did you guys realize that transformations are more a fetish instead of just special interest? On a side note how exactly does TF Roleplay work guys who got lucky in having their girlfriends do that for them?