I feel guilty

Xtrem · 01-21-2010

Well, what to say ? Out of you discussing the subject with other lesbian girls, we can't really help you, HOB.

I'm 100% straight guy, and I'm just open-minded. I'm OK with talking normal stuff about girl-girl or guy-guy relationships, but if you wanna go deeper, me or some other hetero person won't be able to get what you wanna tell.

I don't want to hurt you, but this is just a warning : very few people will understand what you have in mind, and even fewer will certainly want to talk with you about it.

Now, just my point of view : you can't suppress your natural instincts. Which means, if you're a lesbian girl who wants to be a boy, you can't suppress in your mind the fact you're a girl and that your body was designed to go with a guy and not a girl. You can fight all you want, you're biologically programmed that way. That is true for you and for her.

Talking with her won't help : it won't be licking each other wounds, it'll look more like you'll both be pouring salt on them. Still my opinion and based on my life conception, sure, but hey, love doesn't solve everything. I've experimented it the hard way with the only girl I ever loved in my life.

Final point : don't mix pride and relationship. One of the worst mix ever. Just go enjoy life your way without her. You don't need to feel guilty for something you triggered without doing anything special.

01-21-2010	#5
Xtrem Process Ambassador Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Paris Posts: 963	Re: I feel guilty Well, what to say ? Out of you discussing the subject with other lesbian girls, we can't really help you, HOB. I'm 100% straight guy, and I'm just open-minded. I'm OK with talking normal stuff about girl-girl or guy-guy relationships, but if you wanna go deeper, me or some other hetero person won't be able to get what you wanna tell. I don't want to hurt you, but this is just a warning : very few people will understand what you have in mind, and even fewer will certainly want to talk with you about it. Now, just my point of view : you can't suppress your natural instincts. Which means, if you're a lesbian girl who wants to be a boy, you can't suppress in your mind the fact you're a girl and that your body was designed to go with a guy and not a girl. You can fight all you want, you're biologically programmed that way. That is true for you and for her. Talking with her won't help : it won't be licking each other wounds, it'll look more like you'll both be pouring salt on them. Still my opinion and based on my life conception, sure, but hey, love doesn't solve everything. I've experimented it the hard way with the only girl I ever loved in my life. Final point : don't mix pride and relationship. One of the worst mix ever. Just go enjoy life your way without her. You don't need to feel guilty for something you triggered without doing anything special. __________________ My commissions : http://unevenguy.deviantart.com/ Last edited by Xtrem; 01-21-2010 at 07:57 AM.